Yes, you may as many people tend to get completely wrapped up in your own feelings and give the middle finger to anyone who tries to tell you otherwise, but if one of your besties decided to start humping your ex, would you be supportive or forgiving? Thirdly, yet without intending to come across as territorial in a caveman-defecating-on-his-patch-of-land sort of way, that person was with you and was part of your life. They were someone who significantly contributed to shaping the person you are today. Anyone familiar with Friends will be fully aware of how often they swapped and shared partners. Not only is that his best friend, but he massively betrayed him. Being honest, showing respect, and having trust in one another is the key trinity to BFFs.
9 signs you probably shouldn't date your friend's ex
Is It Ever Okay To Date Your Best Friend's Ex?
Now, was this because I was still in love with my ex? While I still do love him and always will, it took me a bit to get up the courage to get back out there again. So in this case, put all your options on paper. A couple of weeks after the breakup he had another girl move in with him. He has stayed in contact with her throughout the years and yes she has become the topic of many fights. There was no opportunities for me to express how I felt or anything. They may have no idea of how confusing and misleading their behavior is.
Should You Date Your Friend’s Ex-Girlfriend?
It just sort of happened. In discussing this topic with my female friends, it seems to me that men are especially experienced in dealing with this dilemma. Say a friend of mine breaks up with so-and-so, and we run into her at a party. In some ways this is perfectly natural. This sort of stuff happens more than you might think.
I split up with my ex a year ago and quickly started dating. I met someone nice, but within weeks I discovered that my ex and my best friend had started a relationship. When I found out, I felt a rage I had never experienced. There are rare instances when people establish a real friendship afterwards, but that requires a suitable cooling-off time first. The real betrayal is that of your best friend.